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A look at the nazar customs in Indian homes, such as kala teeka and lemon-chilli, what they express and how to keep them safe.
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Walk through almost any Indian neighbourhood and you will see them: a lemon and green chillies hanging at a shop door, a black smudge on a baby's cheek, a pair of old shoes tied to a new building. These are nazar customs, and they are older than most of the families who practise them.
A small black dot made with kajal on a baby's cheek or forehead is perhaps the best-known custom. The idea is that a flaw drawn on a beautiful face turns an admiring glance away. Many families see it as a loving habit more than a belief.
Seven green chillies and a lemon strung together are hung at homes and shops and replaced weekly. They are a symbol of protection, and there is also a practical, pleasant side: the sharp smell and bright colour make an entrance feel looked-after.
In some homes a handful of salt, mustard seeds or dried chillies is waved around a person and then discarded. The gesture is a way of "giving away" worry, often accompanied by a short prayer.
Nazar customs express modesty about good fortune and affection for people we love. They also recognise a social truth: envy exists. For many families they are gestures of care rather than serious claims about supernatural harm.
To learn more, read our article on evil eye and nazar beliefs.
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